Preparation for ROM Part 1

14th April 2012

Since the day he proposed to me, I already started to explore around to make sure I'm mentally and financially prepared for the big day.

And since the day we announced to our family, I know there is no turning back or I should say we should start to plan towards our commitment either to both of us, or to our family. You know, like something we already said, and cannot break the promises.. Wtf.. what I am saying.. I meant we need to plan la.. start planning at least...

So after few rounds of discussion, we decide to choose Putrajaya JPN for our ROM. Why, because few of our friends recommend it for its nice room decoration (at least doesn't looks like a dull room with a table and few chairs, not nice for photoshoot isn't). And most importantly, it is open on Saturday! Yuhuuu!! Hopefully, could involve all my beloved friends and beloved family members to be the witness of my big day.

After choosing the venue, the DATE! uhhh~ headache part.. Originall we decided to choose our Annivessary date as ROM date which is on 6th August, but unfortunately it falls on Monday, which mean my beloved friends and family members need to take leave .. Aduh *again*.. After discuss and discuss and discuss... we decided to choose 11th August 2012, Saturday. I guess August 11th not that bad also isn't? At least it's not 13th .. or 4th... lolx!

Next, I started to explore around the hairdo for my newly cutted-hair... Now started to feel regret of cutting it, or I should blamed him for not proposing to me earlier.. So at least I can have a second thought whether to cut my hair or not..awaiting for my actual wedding day =.="
Now i need to struggle around looking for suitable hair for PIXIE short hair specifically...

Still looking for one suitable one.. Maybe need to hunt for hair accessories liao.. >.<


Next... on the "TO DO" list... the photography for our ROM... I was searching around for a professional photographer to capture the special moment.. Some of them charging RM800, few of them charging RM700... the cheapest that I can source is RM680 for half day shoot, with unlimited photo shoot... Frankly, it's quite costly for our ROM, but thinking it's our special day anyway.. Hallooo.. it's the day when I no longer "single & available" ok! Sure big DAY La! And I want to capture all my friends, family members and my and my future hubby nice nice... But when I tell Vincent about this, his response was "Aiyo.. No need la.. ROM no need engage professional photographer la.. waste money...!"

*sweat**** Maybe it's small matter to you, but it's a big matter to me.. If i really cannot source for cheaper , then might need to get our friend (who own DSLR camera) help then.. Maybe pao a small ang pao to him ... hehehe~ Tobby... You are the only one.. who else can be as pro as you? Hahahhahaah! Or maybe borrow a DSLR camera from friends for the capture.. Bettter than nothing then... If he really think it's not worth to pay RM700 for a professional photographer for capturing the special moments.. =.=""" Or worst to worst I PAY LO =.=" The touch of professional photographer memang different as compare to my normal 10.1 Megapixel camera.. of course with my 1/10000 water pail photoshooting skills...


To be conitnued .... *alot of things to consider..***

Special moment on 30.3.2012

Finally he popped the question of "Will you marry me?" on 30.3.2012.

He made me a video, a video simple video of our photos along with Brueno Mars's song "Will you marry me?".

It starts when we took our leave to settle our house matters, flying here and there to TNB, SYABAS,MPK... it's really tiring and somehow after a long journey, we had a small argument and I throw a tantrum.

But being him, the always him, he being so patient and soft talking to me, apothem me, telling me that no matter how I re-act, how I throw my tantrum, he will always love as he is now.

Then I realize he is the one, he is the one who I want to be with for the rest of my life. Where can I find a man who will not scold me when I reluctant to wake up in the morning, who will not scold me for being lazy cleaning room, who will not scold me for throwing tantrum for small matters.

At that moment, he on his notebook, playing a video, a video of us....... And after around 5 minutes, I saw "I want to ask : Will you marry me?"..

And once I turn back to look at him, he's kneeing on the ground (with two knees; like praying hahahahahahah! Asking; will you marry me?.

Simultaneously, he use his hand to show a love-shaped cover with a diamond ring.... Awwwwww~~~~~




I know he going to pop this question someday near (but never know it will be today when I mengamuk throwing my tantrum! Lolx! He really so dare, and confident I won't be slapping him pop this question at this time, hen fire over my head. LOLX!

Anyway, there here goes the remarkable moment in my life, being proposed. Yes abit simple but after hearing how he spend his time choosing the ring by looking at the forum, hopping from shop to shop, from Lazo Diamod to Wah Chan to
Tomei... Hahahaha!

I buy it and here he goes to be my man of life..."soon" hahaha! Yet to be now.. Lolx, until
He gets me a flower at least! Propose sure got flower de ma... What u think?@.@

Thanks babe, for making my life more lovely with u... Love you forever!



Signing off,
Elaine Tam

Our X'Mas Celebration

This year will be our 2nd year celebrating christmas together gather. This year Christmas abit special as we set some rules, terms & condition.

Golden Rule 1 : Our gift to each other CANNOT exceed RM50! Must be below RM50. Maybe can exceed little bit if to include the wrapping paper and boxes! hahahahahha!

Golder Rule 2 : Must D.I.Y (DO IT YOURSELF) card for each other.
Frankly, I'm quite dissapointed with myself this time, because me being the "creative me", actually ended up cannot think of any creative ideas for this year christmas gift exchange. T_T

I'd crunched my brain, and squeezed all my brain juice to think of what to buy, what to get for him. At the same time, I'm running out of time as I'm quite busy with my schedule recently, and no time to shop at all. But somehow, manage to think of an idea to get him alot... alot of xmas gifts for this time, and at the same time maintaining the limit of RM50. Hmmmmmmm, can't wait to see it? hahahhaahah!!

Ok, before moving ahead with what I've bought him, let's start with our venue for this year. We went to Sakae Sushi, Jusco Bukit Tinggi for a quick supper + gift exchange ceremony. I choose this venue considering we will have our private table (closed area) and we can use this to snap our photos! wwakakkakakak! Nice idea leh~

We purposely choose the most discreet place for our gift exchange knowing he (VINCENT) are ashame type and as expected, he used to always concern whether people are peeping at me, him or us. >.< Anyway, I know he's adapting, and getting better and better, day by day, being influenced by me! hahahahah! Good job babe *tapping my babe's shoulder


I still remember how we celebrated our last year Xmas celebration, we went to Chilis and proceed with gift exchange. I bought him the Bvlgari perfume set, and he bought me BLiv skin care set, which both are quite expensive for Xmas gift exchange. wtf. So thats the reason why we come out with the Golden Rule 1 and Golden Rule 2! heheheheh!



Without realizing, it's been a year passing our last celebration. That's very fast isn't it? This means we are happy without realizing the time passing us like a speedlight! ^_^



A picture worth a thousands, and let's the picture do the taking ba~



#1 Hungry, we ordered Udon Mee to cure our crunching stomach, eventhough both of us just eaten the dinner.. wtf! No wonder both of us getting fatter and fatter ! hahah!

#2 Our drinks, GREEN TEA!


#3 Babe with his Kappa Maki.
#4 Our DIY Xmas card. He is cheating, as he brought the card from shop and write on it. Cis.... Broke his promise...

#5 The front of the cards.. Right (Bought by Vincent) , Left
(D.I.Y By Elaine)


#6 Jeng Jeng Jeng! It's time to reveal all the gifts... Opssss. below still not all yet! Alot leh~

#7 Ok, opening one by one! hahahaha! This is Chocolate Panda cookie.. his favourite cookies, my favourite too. LOLX!

#8 Next, his favourite ROCKY sticks! My favourite too.. LOLX!!


#9 This is good! His favourite candy, DAIM chocolate. He always wanted to buy, and always telling me how good it is, and never had a chance to try. Search for quite some places to get this candy, finally found it at Famous Amos, Bukit Raja.

#10 Next, babe's favourite candy, apple sweet sour candy.

#11 Babe'favourite tit bits and chewing gum! LOLX!

#12 Finally.. the biggest gift for the night! Jeng jeng jeng!!


#13 The DIY card and the biscuit! hahahah! For you babe!


#14 All for you!! Likes it or not?


#15 My turn...My turn! Got 2 also.. don't play play!


#16 My card..


#17 WOW! I got turbo hair dryer and the curler hair dryer!


#17 WOW! Us..


#17 WOW! Us..again !


At the same time, I also bought a watch for him after shopping with my mom yesterday. I guess I can include this as the Xmas gift listing, since it's Xmas anyway. Opssss. does that mean it's out of the limit set earlier? OMG!

#18 Polo watch, not an expensive watch, but stylish watch for casual and working purpose.



Hope u like it babe! Meery XMAS!! Muaksss!

:: It's just sooo romantic ::

Celebrity Blogger, Audrey and Nuffnang Boss, Tim always been a high-profile couple in blog world. They have been together I think like 3 years, and both of them known to be the cutie mutie couple. It's been sometime since my last update on their love story, until recently Tim has proposed to Audrey, and guess what.. they were engaged now!!

Even feel more touching after watching this video, it's the video that was being shoot during the proposal. It was just so romantic especially with the song, A Thousand Years sang by Cristina Peri - Soundtrack of Breaking Dawn Part 1. Without knowing, I played their video for more than 5 times. wtf! Keep on repeating, and repeating.

Frankly, I wish I could have the same suprised and sweet proposal from my other half (ya ya.. it's you...!! looking no left and right!) hahahhahahah!!

Don't know why, maybe all the while I memang feel like to marry de.. that's why will have the feeling of rushing to get marry as well after watching people around you also busy taking pre-wedding photos, or attending wedding dinner.. u know.. just like when you feel like to pass motion.. the feeling just come in a splash of seconds.. hahahah!

But sometime the feeling seems to come and go, considering alot of things.... Considering are we really ready for level up our status from single to married, from boyfriend to become husband, from girlfriend to wife! wtf! wife =.=" .. and sooner or later become mummy!!! wtf again....

At the same, there are so many uncertainty now, our house yet to be ready, our financial status yet to reach to a level where we are comfortable to get marry, our relationship stability which I think too fast to think about marry isn't? - a 1 year ++ relationship, do you think it's stable enough to think about wedding? Are we really ready for those? Dang..! too many uncertainty...

But sometime, comments from people seems to make me think again.. My colleague always teasing me, saying that I have the look of wanting to get marry soon... not soon, it's IMMEDIATELY! =.=" And because of that mis-interpretation, make me feel the same or they manage to brainwashed me to think that I AM! wtf!

In conjunction with that, my both sisters already married for sometime, and expecting their 3rd kids very soon. >.< And i'm still dangling with my life, without husband, without kids at age of 27...errrrr...28 in another week. never never imagine what will be the life after getting marry becoming a wife, or maybe lazy wife! hahahah!

I met into the "ONE" a year ago, and with the blessing from GOD, proudly to announce that we are together as one now. He is a very good boyfriend, he is trying his best to satisfy me as his girlfriend, no matter in helping me in doing the house-core for me, spending his time with me, holding my hand no matter where he go, being with me when I need it the most. And I think he should be the one, Vincent should be the one. *kekekkekeke*

*playing the video again now*... The song is just so romantic to be played again and again. *melting*. I wish our future proposal will be as romantic as theirs.. :p

Love that stays forever

Love.. What is love? I believe love at first side, and I also believe in eternal love. But why love became such a great element, so great that can make someone forgot about what is "sadness"? Sounds chime huh....



I used to feel down when I face something which is not going through very well especially in my work. I had the urgency to meet him even though I'm tired to move my butt around. Doesn't care whether he understand my situation or get what I'm facing now, despite of that, I just want to meet him, a split of seconds also sufficient to cure my emo'ness of me.

Maybe that's love, isn't? I used to ask my chum, what is love when you already spent like few years being with someone. A relationship which is lack of "sparkles", a relationship which has become routines, a relationship which become something normal without any surprises and spiciness. And she replies "last long love relationship is when a relationship builds to a stage where you will treat them as your family instead of lover".



You will know that he/she will be with you no matter just like your family, you know that you will always has someone close just like your family supporting you regardless whether you're in poor, rich, sad or happy. Someone who will spent most if their time whether up and down holding hand by hand with you going through all the hardship with you.

Fuhhh! That's a long philosophy about love. But despite with all those long and length philosophy, love is easy, as easy as 1.2.3 and ABC... love is love . Love is happy!

I'm glad that I found love, and I hope the love is forever.


Love you babe!

:: M.A.S.K Time ::

Have you ever having MASK session with your boyfriend / husband? LOLX!! I had it.... Unbelievable, Vincent is the kind who will want to do mask. You know.. Man.. always says

"Aiya, Mask useless de la.. do what la".. or

"My face no need mask de..."..

But Vincent is the kind who will say

"You buy mask ah, got buy for me ma?" or say

"I don't have ah?"

hahahahhaha!! But one thing irritates me is .. he has a almost close to "PERFECT" skin.. Non-oily face.. Less black-head, NO/ZERO white head.. And most importantly his skin is FAIR!! wtf...

With such perfect skin, I don't he need to waste money to buy and apply mask.. =.=" Does not need to buy hydrating mask (his face is hydrate enough), does not need to buy whitening mask (his skin is FAIR ENOUGHHHHH!!!). I wish I could have the same skin like him.. T_T With his existence (his skin), make my skin looks terribly bad.. LOLX!

Anyway, luckily he's not the kind who will curi-curi steal my mask and apply it at another corner *wink eye brow*.. He is not isn't, as I didn't stock count my mask also.. hahahahah! Nola, just joking, I know he won't.

So I wonder is your boyfriends/husbands are the same like him, who like to do mask like him or having one that HATE mask :p So ready to see our MASK TIME???

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#1 Jeng Jeng Jeng!!! Applying his first-time mask.

#2 Applying mask at Korea when we were given a free-trial from the tour guide.

Sorry babe

You must wondering why I say sorry...Sighhh...
Please be seated, ready the pop-corn, and the movie will start soon...jeng jeng jeng...

As mentioned earlier, VTSL applied another Maxis supplementary line for me to use.
Somehow I switched on my phone bluetooth connection unintentionally, and so lazy to switch it off. This is the root cause for everything. Since now I'm on iPhone broadband, so normally I will connect to Internet using the cable Internet teethering. Due to connection not so good that night, I decided to try to connect using bluetooth and enable the bluetooth connection on my notebook.

Not sure why I so blur that night connecting the Maxis connection from the supplementary line instead of connecting from my iPhone broadband. And I thought it was connected from iPhone dataline, and I continue to use happily until I found it out one hour later. Luckily I accidentally touch my phone, and sense why my phone seems so hot, and saw the globe icon turning around and OMG!!!!!!! that's when I realize about everything.

I called VTSL immediately and ask him to check the billing for Internet connection using Maxis in that 1 hour. I bet it will be very expensive. Somehow he not being able to check it on the spot, and need to wait for another day. Sighhh, in my heart thinking sure at least it will hit RM100.

After 24 hours..........
I asked him again on the bill and he reluctant to tell me until I threaten him saying "I don't want to see him if he don't want to tell me".
Sighh guess what, the 1 hour Internet usage cost at RM170++ (according to him).. WAH LIAOOO!!! I was so shocked man! Damn, thinking in heart I was so stupid for letting such stupid things happen.

Of course I want to pay him for the Internet usage that I've used, but he refuse to accept even after multiple attempt in giving him the money until he said

"I already paid for you dear, you keep the money for our first trip together ok? *showing the sweet smile on his face*"

Awwwwwwwwwww.... my dear so good.. ^^ I promised I won't repeat the same mistakes again. And tell you what, I can't wait for our 1st trip together.