:: When will you say I do?"

This question popped out all out of sudden and had a feel to blog it out while I can remember. Maybe because I'm old enough (OMG!!! Yes, I'm old liao T_T hahahahaha!!). All the while I’m having the perception or mindset that marriages thingy are something to be discussed after a relationship stabilize after at least 3-4-5-6 years, or until both of mentally, physically and financially ready for marriage. But now I realize when you’re comfortable to talk about it, then you will talk about it unintentionally or unconsciously. So Vincent and I talk about it on and off during our conversation (regardless it’s for the sake of just finding a topic to talk about or we really started so soon to plan for wedding.. wtf..I think this probability lesser considering we just started our relationship for like xx months). We did discuss (little bit here and there) on below topics somehow somewhere.

So back to the question what will you consider and when do you think you’re ready to get marry?

1) When you understand your partner well enough to be with him/her for the rest of your life?
Question
a. How long is long enough for you to know your partner? 1 year? 2 years? 3 years? 4 years? 5 years or longer 10 years maybe? =.=”
b. You know him/her well now, doesn’t meant he/she won’t change when time pass by considering the environmental changes such as career, friends, family, etc etc.

2) When your partner financially ready to build a family?
Question
a. Buy house need money
b. Wedding need money
c. House renovation need money
d. Buying furniture need money
e. Give birth/ raise a baby need money
Conclusion: all need money wtf… $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

3) When you emotionally ready to be a husband/wife?
Question
a. When you will ready to take the responsibilities to become a husband/wife?
b. When you will ready to take the responsibilities to become a daddy/mummy?

4) When is your family ready to accept new member as part of their family?
Question
a. Will you continue to marry the guy/gal if your family did show somehow dislike or complains?
b. What you will do if he/she failed to blend well into your family culture?
c. What will you do to make he/she to at least meet the requirement of your parents?

@_@ So many things to consider isn’t it? There are so many things to be taken care off before he pop the question “Will you marry me?” or before she answer “I do”.

I think there will be a lot of things to consider when you already become someone’s son in law/daughter in law, someone’s wife/someone’s husband such as you will need to change the priority for the component in your life once you committed to family. So up for you to think whether when will you get ready to get marry! ^^ For me, I will say it will be the time when it's time, when it's not the time, no point pushing everything to be ASAP ^^