How do u feel after getting married?

How do you feel after married?

This is the question where both Vincent and I have been hearing again and again after our solemnization of marriage last Saturday.

Now, before we proceed, let’s play a game, answer this question without using your brain to think

“WHAT IS YOUR REASON FOR GETTING MARRIED?”
*Don’t think! Just answer based on your quickest instinct!!!!*

Next question à

“HOW U FEEL AFTER GETTING MARRIED?”
*Don’t think! Just answer based on your quickest instinct!!!!*

Got answer? Ok, write your answers down on a piece of paper!

Proceed with the hot question, this question make me started to think for the fact and real answer for this question despite where both of us should be having this answer even before last Saturday.

I used to ask myself, “Am I ready to get married?  “Am I ready to become a wife?”  Then soon upgrade the status to become a mother.

I know my age is ready (wtf! Quite old already!) to become a women instead of xiao mei mei who is lingering around just to earn my salary.
I know financially I’m ready to commit to a tougher life becoming a wife to support the expenses of a family.
I know I’m mentally little bit ready to commit a life to my partner, sharing everything include telling him how many armpit hair I have wtf!
I know I’m ready with my new life with Vincent including doing all sort of things as his wife (wash toilet, wash clothes, wash bedsheet, wash plates, cook rice, boil soup! Wtf!).

But somehow, today read about an article talking about the reason of getting married and the reason for not getting married. Although it’s not really reflecting how I felt and think, but something that make all of us think deeply of each and every decision that we will make and made.  Some of my colleague/friend claim they do not want to get marry for now, some of them they will get marry after 2 years/3 years, some of them wondering whether is there any meaning for getting married, some of them enjoy their marriage life (just like me after the signing, enjoy to see the happy photos captured during our registration, starring for the photos almost like few days non-stop), some of them questioned whether should they get married in the first place.

Now, what’s your answer on your sheet of paperWhat is your reason for getting married?

Because you wish to get pregnant and become mummy/daddy? Because you want to make love officially (#hamsap )?
Because you want to officially settle your single life?
Because you want stop wondering around to look for your so-called PREFECT Mr Right and Ms Right?
Because your family pushing you to get marry so can deliver grandson-grand-daughter for them wtf!?
Because you can’t survive being alone, so quickly tie your partner so he/she can’t run away from your “5-finger-mountain (em-chi-san)”?

Or just because you love your partner so much and want to spend the rest of your life with him/her?  *rolling eyes* Have you (married, going to marry soon, or single reader) think of it before?

Now, what’ the answer for HOW U FEEL AFTER GETTING MARRIED?

i)                    *speechless*

ii)                   *think for long time* - “Happy”

iii)                 *without thinking* - “Happy”

iv)                 Immediate answer – “Nothing”

v)                  *jumping* HAPPY!!!! *high pitched sound*

vi)                 *Blushing* Happy~ *and use palm covering mouth *act shy*

vii)               *showing sad face* - “Ok loooooooooooooo ma like that… nothing different also”

Each of these answer represent something mentally and physically. You may want to answer (without thinking) and evaluate your answer to judge whether you really want to get marry or just for the sake of just want to get marry?

If you had the answer in your heart, just work towards it to make your life enjoyable regardless you are single or married ! I hope I will too J